
http://articles.techrepublic.com.com/5100-10878_11-5805260.html
If your server is not on the outside/DMZ then you will have to setup port forwarding.
Let your ISP know that you are setting up a PPTP VPN (point to point tunneling protocol) And have them forward port 1723 to your routing services server. Also have them enable the GRE IP protocol (Protocol 47)
Now setup the VPN on your Iphone. This video lays out the steps well
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QOpsInrH7-Y